We looked into “happy” yesterday. I am pressed to think of any important innovation that came about by negativity. So why not positivity today? They are brother and sister.
So a couple of thoughts:
Negativity often happens when you’re not aware of it. It becomes a way of being without you realizing it. I once worked at a station that I found very negative, so I went out and bought a boat horn. Looks like a can of spray paint, but is very, very loud. Then, every time someone in the station was negative I blew the horn. Within weeks the atmosphere of the station changed dramatically. A loud noise showed them how often they were negative.
I know people who will tell me I’m not being realistic or too Pollyanna. But where does it say that reality is negative? Except maybe on some TV reality shows. It’s not always easy, but reality is what you make of what’s happening to you. You have the choice between seeing it positively or negatively. I prefer to think like the Cheshire Cat from Alice in Wonderland: “I’m not strange, weird, off nor crazy, my reality is just different from yours.” And it’s positive.